money can't buy my happiness or love

Spilled the beans about the culinary arts interview on Monday because I was so excited I couldn't contain myself... Thought they'd be proud/happy for me. Wrong
If I stay here, I get a significant raise...
I don't want a raise, I want to be happy.
My family doesn't understand faith, happiness or dreams
They only understand the bottom line, money in the bank, big houses and fancy cars.
I feel stuck - obligated to my family.
I feel like I've sold my soul to my family and didn't get a receipt.

I think if I go, I will be shunned. Maybe that's what I have to do and hope they will understand.

Advice: Never open a family operated business; it'll ruin your family's relationship and tightness.