Failed

I guess I shouldn't have said my relationship failed; nothing is ever failed. We should take these life lessons as a blessing and celebrate the things we once had, and learn from them. Everything that is meant to happen will happen.

I believe God has already chosen my path, and I trust him; I know he won’t toss things at me I can’t deal with, and if he does, he is always there to steer me in the direction of where I am supposed to be. Without these heartaches, I would not be the person I am today. Infact, I am grateful for these rough patches, I enjoy them. As hard as it has been, I am learning to love this person I am slowly becoming.

I do agree it is hard to see the good in the bad, but I do know if we dig hard enough, it’s there. We will find it. I can not tell you exactly what I have learned from my last relationship yet, but I can tell you this: in my next relationship, I promise to love harder and deeper than I ever have in the past. I do have a lot to lose by putting it all out there, but I have much more to gain from doing so.